Out in the Open http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/forums/2 en-us Copyright 2006, Yuku feeds@yuku.com (FeedMaster) webmaster@yuku.com (WebMaster) Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:07:15 GMT Yuku Feeds 1.0 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 Yuku http://static.yuku.com//feed/bypass/images/button-yuku.png http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/forums/2 Yuku - free hosted forums and profiles 88 31 {pics-1.1 "http://www.icra.org/ratingsv02.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (nz 1 vz 1 lz 1 oz 1 cz 1 ) "http://www.rsac.org/ratingsv01.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (n 0 s 0 v 0 l 0 )) Search Search Domain q http://yuku.com/search/direct/ <![CDATA[ New here ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10986/t/New-here.html
We'll be getting the first lot of results back on Monday, but we've been told not to get our hopes up. The measurements of the fluid/skin at the back of the neck now indicate we have a 70% chance of having a serious chromosome abnormality (a week ago it was a 25% chance). Bubs also hasn't formed correctly and it's intestines are still on the outside of the body. I asked the doctor if there was no chromosome... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Kiwi) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10986 Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:54:18 GMT <![CDATA[ Relief that I've found this site ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10927/t/Relief-that-I-ve-found-this-site.html feeds@yuku.com (Blondienut) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10927 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:36:59 GMT <![CDATA[ Stillborn birth for a friend ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10921/t/Stillborn-birth-for-a-friend.html Do any of you ladies know of a similar forum for someone who lost an infant through stillborn birth? This forum was incredibly helpful to me when I made my AHC in January 2006 (seems so long ago), and I'm looking to pass some information along to someone who very recently went through stillborn birth--slightly different circumstances, but similar pain as we all feel.

Thanks for any and all tips!

]]> feeds@yuku.com (sarafhlbi) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10921 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 08:30:28 GMT <![CDATA[ Gold Community Renewal Time...Update! ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10853/t/Gold-Community-Renewal-Time-Update-.html We have received over $250 in contributions - THANK YOU! image

We have 1510000 Gold Ad-Free page views.

I found out that our board is NOT supposed to be on page view status, but on days per contribution. Per an email from one of the YUKU support staff, we now have "you currently have about 4.7 years worth of gold... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Ayliea) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10853 Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:42:24 GMT <![CDATA[ New Here ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10365/t/New-Here.html feeds@yuku.com (kelloggs1981) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10365 Tue, 01 Sep 2009 09:08:21 GMT <![CDATA[ Apologies from the Administrator... ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10229/t/Apologies-from-the-Administrator-.html
I have no Internet access at my home at this time, and in the process of trying to get it re-initiated here in Belize. I am way behind in posting Memorials and Stores, and I sincerely apologize; as soon as I get my home Internet back up and running I will be available to update and post all the requests. I am currently visiting Internet cafes to check in... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Ayliea) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10229 Fri, 14 Aug 2009 12:21:27 GMT <![CDATA[ Trisomy 21 ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10131/t/Trisomy-21.html feeds@yuku.com (MRenczkowski) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/10131 Fri, 31 Jul 2009 14:12:22 GMT <![CDATA[ How is the earth still turning? ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9952/t/How-is-the-earth-still-turning-.html
It is three days since my termination. My baby had Trisomy 13, Patau's Syndrome. My heart is broken and my life is shattered, and still the earth is turning and day follows night. How do I go on too? How do I get up every day? I can't make sense of it. I'm... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (sadfifi) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9952 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 07:53:03 GMT <![CDATA[ Technical site question ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9736/t/Technical-site-question.html feeds@yuku.com (earlythoughts) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9736 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 21:33:05 GMT <![CDATA[ Rest in Peace Dr. Tiller ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9499/t/Rest-in-Peace-Dr-Tiller.html
Thank you Dr. Tiller for your tireless efforts to help women in need.

Administrators,
A Heartbreaking Choice
]]> feeds@yuku.com (Ayliea) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9499 Sun, 31 May 2009 23:08:32 GMT <![CDATA[ resource blog ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9093/t/resource-blog.html I'm so sorry that you had to find our community of parents who've lost a much wanted baby. I did not find much online that helped parents like us. I found tons of information on general pregnancy loss but ours is a specific circumstance.

I started a blog www.angelseashore.wordpress.com. On it is a page titled "Letter to Doctor" - it's printable and my hope is that you'll use it as... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (rileyrosemom) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9093 Thu, 09 Apr 2009 16:08:31 GMT <![CDATA[ List of AHC Blogs... ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9058/t/List-of-AHC-Blogs-.html Thank you to our wonderful members who share their lives and thoughts with us image feeds@yuku.com (Ayliea) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/9058 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 07:27:20 GMT <![CDATA[ New to AHC ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8911/t/New-to-AHC.html feeds@yuku.com (NP) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8911 Thu, 19 Mar 2009 10:36:19 GMT <![CDATA[ For someone who is not sure... ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8868/t/For-someone-who-is-not-sure-.html
If you do decide to go through with the tx, please let me know and I will immediately approve your membership. In the mean time - if you feel comfortable, you can come... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Ayliea) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8868 Sun, 15 Mar 2009 16:26:10 GMT <![CDATA[ For Kim, who's struggling ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8745/t/For-Kim-who-39-s-struggling.html Kim - I found the letters and I thought they might help you. I've copied and pasted the whole thing here for you. Please let me know if I can help you with anything else during this difficult time.

<Kim, I have to remove this content due to reprinting permissions of the author. However the women here who responded have shared such heartfelt support, that I left the remaining thread.Take care> Sara, AHC Administrator
]]> feeds@yuku.com (rbconley) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8745 Tue, 24 Feb 2009 12:37:50 GMT <![CDATA[ How to handle pregnant siblings? ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8650/t/How-to-handle-pregnant-siblings-.html
I think we need to sit down with them and... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Thankful) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8650 Wed, 11 Feb 2009 19:32:04 GMT <![CDATA[ University of Michigan Pregnancy Loss Survey ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8642/t/University-of-Michigan-Pregnancy-Loss-Survey.html
Your browser may... ]]></description> <!-- optional elements --> <author>feeds@yuku.com (Ayliea)</author> <guid isPermaLink=http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8642 Tue, 10 Feb 2009 14:31:11 GMT <![CDATA[ Things I'm glad we did or wished we did (practical ideas) ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8559/t/Things-I-39-m-glad-we-did-or-wished-we-did-practical-ideas-.html Before my AHC, I was searching the internet for advice, which is where I came across this forum. I didn't know what to think, what to do, what was going to happen. And I wanted someone to tell me what to do. I thought it would be helpful to other people (or their family members) in the same situation to hear of practical gestures or things to do that make the journey a little bit easier. Obviously these suggestions wont be for everyone, but it might give you some ideas... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (christian23) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8559 Fri, 30 Jan 2009 01:44:59 GMT <![CDATA[ Turner Syndrome ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8426/t/Turner-Syndrome.html Hello, I'm new. I can't be a member yet because we haven't decided 100% to terminate, although I'm fairly certain that will choose to do so. I'm 12w, 4d and we got diagnosed with Turner Syndrome three days ago. We are devastated. Are there other parents out there dealing with a TS diagnosis?

I have a lot of reasons to end the pg, including avoiding suffering and hardship for the baby herself and the adult she will become. I'm also torn up over it. People... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (leigh) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8426 Sat, 17 Jan 2009 22:24:25 GMT <![CDATA[ Wrong diagnosis.....has this happened to anyone else? ]]> http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8335/t/Wrong-diagnosis-has-this-happened-to-anyone-else-.html
Just briefly, we had to make AHC when our second baby was diagnosed with severe Apert syndrome along with heart defects and a nuchal well above normal at 20 week scan. We had our tx by normal delivery in April 08. 6 weeks later we had the prognosis confirmed and were told it was a one off and that we could try again/

Thank goodness we didnt!!!! In November we got a call from the hospital out of the blue saying that this was wrong and that it was a completely... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (lollyp) http://aheartbreakingchoice.yuku.com/topic/8335 Fri, 09 Jan 2009 17:35:22 GMT